Mr. United States Q&A

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Editor’s Note: The opinions expressed in this blog post are solely those of the respondents.

PBS spoke with Writer and Director Paul Catalanotto about Avery Wilson's journey to define what it means to be the nation's gentleman.

PBS: How did you first meet Avery? What was it about his story in particular that compelled you to make this film?

Paul Catalanotto: Avery and I first met when I was contracted to produce sales videos and social media commercials for the Worldwide Spirit Association in Baton Rouge. He was an event emcee as well as working in their sales department, so we had a chance to work together on a variety of projects and become pretty good friends. Eventually, Avery moved on from the company to pursue other projects in dance and pageantry. Thankfully, he dragged me along, and we’ve been working together ever since.

Avery was born to be in the light. He’s just an all around likable guy, and I think that’s the strength of the documentary. You want to hear what he has to say. And truthfully, I’ve always toyed with the idea of telling Avery’s story. I believe he has lived a life that could inspire someone – maybe even save someone. However, I never felt that I had an ending for the film which is why it took me a few years to propose the project to Avery.  I knew the journey but not the destination. It was when he won the crown I finally knew I had a story and more importantly a reason to tell it.

"Being a man is more than our sexuality."

PBS: Avery takes us through his childhood and explains how he tried to conform to certain gender roles to avoid bullying from his peers. He also recalls wondering how he would make competing in Mr. United States “something that was ok to do…” as he was concerned about labels and others associating the pageant with his sexual orientation.

Later he realizes he was able to use his role as the first Mr. United States winner as a platform to write his own story and “define what it means to be the nation’s gentleman.” How do you hope his story about overcoming this impacts other men and male youth, and our society as a whole?

Paul: “Define what it means to be the nation’s gentleman” is my favorite line in the entire film, because what better way to sum up this film? Avery lived his childhood trying to fit what others considered appropriate behavior for a young man - what others considered normal, right, masculine. And over the course of the film, Avery learns to overcome these stereotypes and wins the crown by embracing who he is not shying away from it. Now, he is on a national stage sharing his message on love and setting the example of what it means to be a man. Being a man is more than our sexuality. It’s how we treat each other, and I sincerely hope anyone who watches “Mr. United States” realizes just how important it is to be yourself as well be a little more encouraging to anyone who might be struggling with their identity.

PBS: What was the most important takeaway for you personally working with Avery and learning more about his story?

Paul: What I learned and I think might be the most important thing anyone can take from Avery’s story is that it’s OK to be just how God made you, and that’s yourself.

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